I'm Preoccupied ! My Wife Passed Away !
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 STE\/E        Send message Joined: 28 Mar 10 Posts: 686 Credit: 4,068,811 RAC: 723 |
My wife Passed Away last Saturday @ 4:50am after being quiet sick the last 4-5 years. In a way I think she's in a better place & can rest easy now without all the pain. I was her caretaker & home up until 2 days before she passed away as she got so bad I couldn't care for her anymore & called 911 for a ambulance. At the hospital they determined she had Pneumonia, also Failed Kidneys which were sending toxins to her brain (Why at the end she was a coma-state & couldn't talk or open her eyes). They had her on a heavy duty CPAP Machine & it was the only thing keeping her alive until I decided to put her on Hospice Comfort Care. I asked them why don't they put her on dialysis for the Kidney Failure & Toxins going to her brain & they said they couldn't because she wasn't strong enough to take & the only thing that was keeping her alive then way the overdose of oxygen they were pumping into her. I didn't want her to suffer anymore & decided to start her on the Hospice Care, she passed away 12 hours later, she was awake but unable still unable to talk & then passed away with a smile on her face. She's gone but will never be forgotten ... Understandably I've been preoccupied the last several weeks & may get a little testy at times, just ignore it ... https://signature.statseb.fr/sig-1323.png https://stats.free-dc.org/badgesbanner.php?cpid=13a87c3a303bcdca4ba0ed600daebb6b |
    Send message Joined: 22 Aug 16 Posts: 469 Credit: 2,165,265 RAC: 733 |
Steve, I'm sorry for your loss. May your wife rest in peace. :( |
  Send message Joined: 23 Mar 21 Posts: 18 Credit: 749,769 RAC: 842 |
So sorry for you Steve! 
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Conan     Send message Joined: 28 Mar 10 Posts: 604 Credit: 1,248,643 RAC: 273 |
That is sad news and I am very sorry to hear about your wife STEVE. My thoughts are with you on that. Wishing you and family the best for the year to come. Conan |
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STE\/E Send message Joined: 28 Mar 10 Posts: 686 Credit: 4,068,811 RAC: 723 |
Thank's Guys, been trying to keep myself busy so I don't think about her passing to much ... Hard to do as I still think of her almost every second ... https://signature.statseb.fr/sig-1323.png https://stats.free-dc.org/badgesbanner.php?cpid=13a87c3a303bcdca4ba0ed600daebb6b |
    Send message Joined: 20 May 10 Posts: 588 Credit: 1,974,559 RAC: 403 |
Ste\/e I am sooo sorry to hear of your wifes passing and can't imagine what you are going thru right now. I'm sending prayers and lots of good thoughts to you in this time of flux in your life. mikey |
   Send message Joined: 29 Jul 11 Posts: 348 Credit: 1,275,647 RAC: 317 |
Ste\/e, Sorry to hear about your wife's passing. Takes care of yourself and try to get some rest. |
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STE\/E Send message Joined: 28 Mar 10 Posts: 686 Credit: 4,068,811 RAC: 723 |
Thanks everybody, here's a couple pictures of her when she was younger, sorry I can't make them smaller.   https://signature.statseb.fr/sig-1323.png https://stats.free-dc.org/badgesbanner.php?cpid=13a87c3a303bcdca4ba0ed600daebb6b |
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Send message Joined: 20 May 10 Posts: 588 Credit: 1,974,559 RAC: 403 |
Thanks everybody, here's a couple pictures of her when she was younger, sorry I can't make them smaller. Very pretty woman!! |
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STE\/E Send message Joined: 28 Mar 10 Posts: 686 Credit: 4,068,811 RAC: 723 |
Yes she was, I'm going to miss her dearly... https://signature.statseb.fr/sig-1323.png https://stats.free-dc.org/badgesbanner.php?cpid=13a87c3a303bcdca4ba0ed600daebb6b |
   Send message Joined: 28 Mar 10 Posts: 5 Credit: 20,359,784 RAC: 4,319 |
Sending my condolences to you STEVE at this very difficult time. Just think of the good times and have fond memories of your years together. |
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STE\/E Send message Joined: 28 Mar 10 Posts: 686 Credit: 4,068,811 RAC: 723 |
Thanks Z & Vaughn ... I need a Million Dollars lol ... Still waiting on the Death Certificates so I can deal with the SS People & the GM Benefits People ... I Donated her clothes to different charities & took most of her gold & silver sterling jewelry to a Gold buyers store, they said "I set the record for the amount of gold & silver sterling brought in" I said "No my wife set the record" ... https://signature.statseb.fr/sig-1323.png https://stats.free-dc.org/badgesbanner.php?cpid=13a87c3a303bcdca4ba0ed600daebb6b |
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Send message Joined: 29 Jul 11 Posts: 348 Credit: 1,275,647 RAC: 317 |
Thanks Z & Vaughn ... I need a Million Dollars lol Lol, my late father used to tease the waitress when we went out to dinner... When they came with the check to pay and asked if there was anything else they could get us, he would put a little smirk on his face and tell them "I'll take a big stack of $20 bills if you have any!" It always got a good laugh from the waitress and probably made their day or evening a bit better. |
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STE\/E Send message Joined: 28 Mar 10 Posts: 686 Credit: 4,068,811 RAC: 723 |
Thanks Z & Vaughn ... I need a Million Dollars lol I always tell any checkout person that asks if I found everything I needed No & they always ask what couldn't I find. I tell them "I couldn't find that pot of gold I've been looking for" it usually gives them a laugh or 2 ... https://signature.statseb.fr/sig-1323.png https://stats.free-dc.org/badgesbanner.php?cpid=13a87c3a303bcdca4ba0ed600daebb6b |
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Send message Joined: 20 May 10 Posts: 588 Credit: 1,974,559 RAC: 403 |
Thanks Z & Vaughn ... I need a Million Dollars lol I'm going to steal that...thanks!!! LOL |
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Sad to hear news of your dear departed STE\/E. Hopefully you will find solace in memories of your good times with her. |
Pooh Bear 27  Send message Joined: 22 Jan 13 Posts: 108 Credit: 810,799 RAC: 48 |
Sad news STEVE, and you have my condolences. She will always be with you. It's amazing the dreams, people, things and general, "why did I do that?" that will always give you a reminder. My mom visits me a lot in dreams, and some of her idioms she used to tell us and phone calls (she called all of us kids daily the weekend before she died, because she wanted to make sure we all visited her before the end of the weekend, which we did).. Dad is often a flag waving (he was in WWII), seeing newsprint (he loved to read the paper) and whenever I drive longer distances, he sits there making sure I am fine (my mom and wife never drove). Mom and dad have been gone for a very long time. Smile to her when she does come by, because it shows how much she loved and still loves you.  My movie https://vimeo.com/manage/videos/502242 |
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